The other day when we finished our last class one class member - a retired Army drill instructor of four decades flat out stated, "Soul - I'd rather go through boot-camp as a grunt at 65 than go through your class ever again!"
The class requires folks to deep-dive into two ancient questions:
1) who am I?
2) why am I here!
Benjamin! Bowing in gratitude to pointing out a fact. That fact? It's what going on - on the inside - that lasts the test of time. While packaging (looks) might align with the contents (sense of worth) - sadly too few take the time to get to really KNOW eachother to determine facts from illusions.