Mindfulness of words and deeds mixed with an awareness to release any sense of expectation = a hour-by-hour teacher.

Acts of discernment - how aware am I of ego's roll in discernment.

Acts of being an ally - how aware am I of any need or want for affirmation?

Acts of labeling one an ally or enemy - how aware am I of my personal biases based on age, gender, orientation (et. al.).

So many ingrediants to the art of discernment. True?