Imagine me smiling ear-to-ear reading your response.
One of the many fun ways I savor life is catching my cohort off-guard. For example, when another 60+ white straight male simply assumes I'm straight as well, I play along until the right moment ripens into a teachable memory.
Following Harvey Milk's advice - "Just come out." I savor coming out to those who least expect such an experience. Each time I flummox a soul's perception of who they believe I am - I remind myself I'm able to do so because so many others before me took risks so many after me no longer see as a risk.
/rambling ;)