Aloha Fred,

First - a delight to see a notice that you decided to follow me. Most kind. I'm always curious to learn what inspired you to join my medium.com Ohana (Hawai'ian term for family).

Next? My condolences. To experience death of a partner — heartbreaking. For what it’s worth, had I learned of this while meeting you in person, I’d offer you a long, hearty hug! Sending you a virtual hug NOW!

Finally - wow! This story - a lesson in how to live transparency. Living a wonderful life and sharing it to the world - delicious. Your post shines light on the potential to live a rich, rewarding life with another man. For those who think to live an out, gay life means living a lonely life - guess what! Not all gay men are lonely! LOL

I look forward to learning more about you as I digest your stories.

Bowing in gratitude for your addition to my medium.com's circle of life.