Ahhhhh Devin - you highlight the most difficult step one must take to grow. Start!
Over the past three decades (based on the honor to shepard well over 300K on personal, professional and spiritual growth adventures) I point out to applicants one of the more fascinating aspects of learning, laughing and growing with more ease and grace - the art of acceptance balancing with allowing.
When I walk folks through a process to recognize just how much effort they're doing to NOT grow - all of a sudden they recognize it's far less effort to grow!
(Preaching to the choir - no doubts!)
Let's connect to explore more . . . .