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A Mind-Blowing Heart Expanding Soul Nourishing Wedding Ceremony
We’ll begin with a story to share how we (you, your partner and I — a licensed Hawai’ian wedding officiant and social worker — masters level) co-create wedding ceremonies that dramatically increase your ability to experience a long, happy, healthy life together . . .
Meet a fictional couple planning to get married — Jamie and Terry.
Before posting invitations Jamie, Terry and I spend a few months mindfully co-creating an experience unlike most wedding ceremonies. During our planning time we often discover topics partners need to spend some time exploring. Before you decide to have a wedding ceremony I ask you:
- are you both on good terms with your grandparents (if still alive) as well as your parents (if still alive)?
- Has each side of your respected circles of families and friends embraced you both in ways that’ll enhance and support your partnership for years to come?
- Have you mindfully explored your lineage and related traditions? How will you honor (or acknowledge new) traditions?
- What kind of support do you have (individually and collectively) to nurture your coupledom for decades to come.