Published inILLUMINATION·PinnedMember-onlyHow Hate Taught A Gay Man — Grace.How to understand willful ignorance. — The older I get (swimming in the sexagenarian end of life’s pool), the more my illusion of knowledge grows more acute. The more I think I know, the more I realize there’s so much more to learn. For example? What have I learned living in a world that teaches hate…Hate8 min readHate8 min read
PinnedMember-onlyAre You Paid What You’re Worth? No? Keep Reading.First? A short backstory. My backstory plays an important part in why I ask almost everyone I meet are you paid what you’re worth. Hang in there. Simply put? I’m raising funds to launch a company to care for caregivers. Business plan? Overview? Done. Capital amount to launch? Calculated. When 50,505 people pay $99.00…Jobs4 min readJobs4 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·1 day agoMember-onlyGreed! Why?Do you recall the scene in the 1987 movie “Wall Street” where the actor Michael Douglas in the role of Gordon Gekko states: “Greed is good!” Really? I personally invite you to consider this post an invitation to wiggle loose your thoughts on greed. Post your thoughts in the response…Greed5 min readGreed5 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Sep 10Member-onlyPower Versus Force (9/11 Reflections)What’s the difference between force and power? On September 11, 2001, the world experienced a dramatic display of power and force on multiple levels. On 9/11/01 we witnessed the use of force in such dramatic proportions we continue to feel this force today. Forces such as ever-expanding use of surveillance…Power5 min readPower5 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Aug 19Member-onlyDo you trust yourself?To trust or not to trust? A question worth exploring. How does trust help or hurt us? What happens when I grant trust to someone or something? When someone decides to trust me, what happens to the gift of perspective? Does trust — like love — blind me? For the…Trust7 min readTrust7 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Jul 8Member-onlyThe Nones Proclaim: The Conservatives are Coming! The Conservatives are Coming!I’ll begin our adventure into the notion that the Conservatives are coming — with a visual. Imagine grasping a cool, pretty snow globe. As you bring this liquid-filled spectacle up for a look, you shake the snow globe up enough to witness a self-induced blizzard before your eyes. As you…Conservatives5 min readConservatives5 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Jun 17Member-onlyFathers Day Blessing & Summer Solstice 2023 Guided MeditationCelebrating Dad’s & Summer’s Arrival Sunday, June 18th is Father’s day. Wed, Jun 21 is the Summer Solstice. To celebrate paternal souls as well as Summer’s arrival, I offer you this guided meditation to welcome a season of growth. [To listen to this guided meditation — click here — to download and listen to .mp3…Fatherhood16 min readFatherhood16 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·Jun 9Member-onlyA Minimalist’s Confession Concerning Gift ExchangesWhat are your thoughts on gift exchanges? More specifically? Annual gift exchanges / traditions. Gift exchanges sneak their way into our calendars, budgets, and norms by coat-tailing on the power of traditions. Once established, have you noticed how traditions take root when given even modest support? (All it takes is…Gift Giving4 min readGift Giving4 min read
Published inILLUMINATION·May 10Member-onlyHow To Retire Doubt, Guilt, Shame and Worry.Let go of four life draining feelings starting today. Since 2006 when I taught my first class focused on understanding your worth on multiple levels (personal, professional, spiritual, social, emotional, financial) I noticed a consistent issue as we started our one year journey. The issue? …Doubt7 min readDoubt7 min read
Published inPrism & Pen·May 4Member-onlyLGBTQ Safe Space Creation V2023.0Do safe spaces enable unsafe behaviors? — A Prism & Pen writing prompt inspired me to reflect on 45+ years of avid out volunteering for organizations, politicians and causes clearly supportive of my rainbow Ohana (family). How do we create safe LGBTQ spaces? Bring the bars back? Good question, Jim. I chuckled at Jim’s reminiscence of his…Safety8 min readSafety8 min read